I know I have been a terrible blogger these days. Terrible blogger, crappy sister and mediocre friend.
I have been doing Christmas - the best I can.
First of all I have to say that I am so grateful, excited, glowing about the fact we are doing it Canadian style this time. I have high hopes.
I should also mention that, thanks to my *insert here* mother, I learned more about the holiday season from television then I did from home, and you know I don't watch television.
I finished the Christmas present shopping, early in fact, this was the easy part. I even had great idea and really do think that everyone will like what I picked out.
The tricky bits are more like organizing the living room. I actually really enjoy (seriously!) dragging furniture around the room, trying different styles, basically pretending it's a new place. I thought I was rather good at it.
Thanks a few people, I now know this is not true. One friend once said 'I like things this way, it looks a little more normal'. My own husband remarked on how our home looked like it had been set up by a mathematician, trying to make the most of the floor space. Its true, we have a dance floor.
While I always noticed that my living room did not look like anyone else's I thought it was OK, but Davíð said it is not cozy, and maybe he is right. I have no sense for these things and I appreciate someone being honest with me. But now I have a problem, we will have 12 people here for Christmas and my home is not cozy.
I've been dragging the couch around the room for weeks - I don't know where it will be cozy - you should see my muscles!
And decorations! My mother in law has done Christmas for the last few years, and before that the kids were to young to notice, but now I need to get going. I am even seriously considering getting a tree, or at least a branch.
I unpacked everything even close to an ornament that the kids have ever made and stuck it to a window.
Then I hit the second hand store and grabbed a bunch of decorations that needed a home, and I stuck them to the windows too.
After a trip to Húsasmíðjan (Icelandic home depot) for a few strings of lights, there is a hint of Christmas in my home.
But it still doesn't look right, it doesn't look like everyone else's, and I'm not sure how to change this. I am grateful that my children like me the way I am, they don't mind my ways.
Tomorrow I am thinking thinking of going down to the Salvation Army store to try to borrow the florescent pink tree they have on display. I already asked about buying it, it is not for sale. But maybe they will lend it to me? Then I am going to cover it in popcorn.
At least the meal should not be too difficult. Kristína, my sister in law, is taking care of the turkey and potatoes, Robert, my father in law, is taking care of the lobster, and Inga, my mother in law is trying to get together a pumpkin pie.
I am taking care of the stuffing after seeing Kraft Stove Top had been imported to Hagkaup. I bought 6 boxes, after wiping the tears away. It was a happy moment.
I am also in charge of the salad. What is a Christmas salad? So far I have tomatoes and cucumbers, sliced fresh on a plate. I should probably do something else too, but first I have to see what vegetables and fruit look decent at Bónus, then find some recipe.
But the day is sneaking up on my quickly and there is really only one more day to get it together.
So, until tomorrow night, I hope, back to the preparations.